October 19, 2013

do explain

today i pour out all my adventurous encounters and problems i went through the couple of days i worked to my dad

ayah said, "mmm...kklg, have you heard about the guy in a train with his 2 kids?"
nope, what's the story?

there was this dad with his two kids in a train ride, the two kids were so active climbing up here and there, screaming. other passengers were disturbed. initially they told off the kids, but they didn't listen. seeing that the dad was just sitting in his seat doing nothing, one of the passengers decided that it's time to tell off the dad instead.

'hey! your kids are making a havoc here, ask them to sit in their places!'

the dad - am sorry, yup, my kids are a little bit troublesome.

'this isn't A LITTLE!'

the dad - if you know my situation, probably you'd understand,

you see, their mother is sick,  in ICU, it has been 5 days since they last seen their mother. they didn't wanna eat or bath or play. this morning though, i got a call from the hospital that we can come and visit today. my kids are so happy, they bathe, had their breakfast and a little bit hyperactive. but just now, i got another call from the hospital that their mother had just passed away...so now am sitting here trying to think of the best way to tell them that. for now i guess, just  let them be...


sekadar gambar hiasan

hearing the story, the passenger also decided to just let the kids be...

*do explain your situation, so people would understand your choices

*and if you are on the angry end, do listen to their explanation...you might decide otherwise instead

^_^

September 30, 2013

patient collapse

i was oncall yesterday,
and i get two episodes of patient collapsing...

first was in OT, the patient just came out, he desaturated...the staff nurse called the aneasthetist oncall which happen to be my senior during medical school. what i did - i just stood there watching...
she managed to get the patient's oxygen in blood back to 100% without intubating him. just high flow mask and suction.
amazed! i was thinking, i need to learn this!

that night, after rounds with my MO, our patient in ward collapsed. this time, the patient ended up with intubation. throughout that 2 hrs trying to get her oxygen level in blood up to 100%, i was thinking, if i was in charged, this patient may not survive...; (
this time around though, i didn't just stood there and watch, i helped take the arterial blood gasses. but i was just following orders, honestly...my mind was blank. my MO asked the readings, i answered the figures, which i cannot decipher its meaning : (

i need to learn this!

the patient end up with something like this picture:

currently i feel safe, thank God my MO was there! thank God my senior was there! but it won't be for long...

i need to stop the blurring, and start knowing!
not that my medical school didn't teach me on how to manage collapsed patients, just in reality i've never faced them before. and when i am for the first time in the middle of it, my mind didn't work -_-

assignment for today - study on how to address collapsed patients = aneasth notes...

sekian, blabbering to my ownself

praying that i won't be a lost sailor, instead i will always reach my destination however rough the sea is ^_^
do pray for me...pleaseeeeeeeeeee

September 17, 2013

housemans has lots of BF/GF

an example of my early days as a houseman:

i was informed a stage 4 colon cancer patient coming in,
i was to take blood, send it to the lab, transfuse her with 2 pint pack cell and inform back my consultant the blood results.
owh, the diagnosis is established! easy!

i did 'just' exactly what he asked me to do.

during rounds:
my specialist: what patient is this?
me: owh, this is (my consultant's name) patient - stage 4 colon cancer.
---
my specialist: hmmm...so..?
me:--mm...??..we are transfusing blood right now, this is the first pint
my specialist: obviously (as there was 1 pint being transfused)...well,??
me:...mmm..???
my specialist: iyelah, stage 4 colon cancer, how did we get to that diagnosis? ape history die? ap CT report dy, HPE result dy, clinical exam ko jumpe ap?...haisyhhhhhh....
me: err...
my specialist: isyh, korg skarang gune computer, click2 jer sume result kluar, sume hx dy before this kluar, kalo ko x sempat nk clerk patient pon at least bace la clinical notes dy before this, ad je dlm comp tu...bukan macam aku time houseman dulu, nk kene trace balik kertas2 dlm store tu...kadang2 sampai 3 hari baru tau cerite...ni kan zaman IT...adoi!

me: err...err...

my specialist: ok, fine...nnt trace CT report dy, so kite plan nk buat ap ni?

me: err...??

my specialist: ni untuk scope esoklah...! haih....make sure ko prep dy betul2 harini, taknak tibe2 cancel plak scope esok! isyh, ko x leh offtag lg nieh!

me: ok.... (in my mind - to prep meaning???)
*****************************

blurr right?...too blurr
well, those days i felt so down...why didn't i know all of these, (the management, the diagnosis, that i needed to properly clerk the patient)..why did i assume that if they(my bosses) already know they wouldn't ask me...why couldn't i perform my work properly???

why? why? why?

i was down mostly because i felt like i've let myself down, after 6 and half years studying, performing quite well during my student years, but once i jump into the field itself, i couldn't perform! there's just so many things i didn't know!

the part being scolded or being talk to as a lower class houseman is another thing, if i was too tired it would bug me, if it was early in the morning, fresh and energetic, i'd just smile =)
smile all the way...

********************************************

now things are much better, am still a bit slow...but at least i know my job

to me...
treating a patient is much like having a boyfriend, you need to know EVERYTHING  that is important medically about him/her, to always check up on him/her, how was the vitals, has the lab results came back yet? what was the x-ray just now like? until the patient is stable and better, allowed to be discharged home, and you keep reminding them to watch out their food, make sure they don't forget the medicine and be on time on their clinic follow up, or come anytime if something goes wrong before the follow up.

that's my metaphorical depiction of my job, hehe  :p
(now i understood why some people are said to be married to their job)

i cannot choose to be ignorant, cause it might cause someone's life

ironically in life too, if we are ignorant, Jannah will be too far-fetched.

rabbuna yusahhilna jami'an

all the best for my juniors in final year
and goodluck to all my fellow colleagues (housemans)
and thanx to all my consultants, specialist and MO's for not giving up on me ^_^

September 07, 2013

yet still a student

finally! am writing again!!! ^_^
after a long long pause, sorry about that!

frankly, emotionally i wasn't strong enough to be giving others advice, or spreading happiness

but that was then,
housemanship really took it's toll on me!


changing from theoretical to practical, adjusting myself to the computerized system and inter-human and inter-racial relationship and the no more leisure sleep...on the 14th day of life (of HO as they describe it) i was depressed!! but luckily my bos is so motherly, she gave me that day off (Thanx Miss Lenny!!)
and also thanx to the attachment medical students who's been through all the tough times with me in ward ^_^

now, after about 2 months
am more adjusted to this new life,
i love going to work!


everyday is bound to store some surprises
every person i meet is gonna teach me something new
and an off day is just so priceless...hehe

some medical student told me that they were adviced by HO that it isn't too late to turn back and quit medicine

but if it's your dream! don't give up! 

بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

فَإِنَّ مَعَ العُسْرِ يُسْرًا
إِنَّ مَعَ العُسْرِ يُسْرًا

surah asy-Syarh, verse 5 and 6
5- So verily, with the hardship there is relief
6- Verily, with the hardship there is relief.

like how newborns struggle to learn how to breathe in the early minutes of life,
people now can say: "as easy as 'breathing'!"

i hope being a doctor will be as easy as breathing to me one day
currently, i still feel like a student

"buah cempedak di luar pagar,
ambil galah tolong jolokkan......" -sila sambung

to my fellow juniors, i would advice you to prepare for your housemanship,
not just academically,
emotionally and mind you, PHYSICALLY!!!

June 21, 2013

Family and Facebook

i usually spend my time waiting for my brother after his training reading a book.
*guys love to make you wait! but am not gonna let them get me...hehe, just kidding...i was trying to spice up and suddenly it becomes ironic...uh? (err...you can skip this part...haha)
and my other free time is usually spent going through the facebook...hehe,
(don't we all do nowadays? erk!)

this is a text from a book am currently reading:

Al-Bukhari and Muslim narrated from Anas رضي الله عنه that the Messenger of Allah صلى الله عليه وسلم said,

"A person who is keen to be blessed in his sustenance and have a along life should keep ties with his kinsfolk."

Abu Ya'la narrates from Anas رضي الله عنه that the Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said,

"Verily through donation and keeping the ties of kinsfolk, Allah may confer a long life safe from evil and death, together with blessings with many benefits such as expiation of faults, forgiving sins, and entering paradise."

Educators should stress these values in the minds of children and actually take them in his company while visiting his relatives, and thus the children begin to like them. The child will acknowledge their favour, and will share with them their joys and sorrows and help them in case of suffering and poverty. This in truth is the height of beneficence.

from English translation of Child Education in Islam by 'Abdullah Nasih 'Ulwan
(The Responsibility of Social Education, The Rights of Kindred by Blood)

this was on eid 2009 + my grandma's 77th birthday ^_^

*Kindred by Blood are those who are related by kinship or lineage.
like fathers, mothers, grandfathers, grandmothers, brothers, sisters, uncles, aunts, cousins...our BIG FAMILY in short :D

(highlighted yellow)
i deduced, the author suggest that we take kids along while visiting relatives so that they get accustomed to them and grow in love with our big family.

in this era 'where-every-few-seconds-we-get-edgy' if we are not on facebook (hehe)
why not use facebook at our advantage...?

trace back our 'Big Family' on facebook,
have them on our friends list,
quiz our brothers and sisters on who knows more of the family members,
always keep in touch with them,

most of us already did this,
coz i did saw a few friends who put up photos of their family gatherings up to 6 or more generations, that they had to put on coloured name tags on...hehe

makes me feel jealous...
because from the 'Hadith' of our beloved Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم above, Allah will give them,
(highlighted pink)

  • blessing in their sustenance (rezeki)
  • a long life
  • that is safe from evil ad death
  • expiation of faults
  • forgiving of sins
  • paradise
they are very easy to obtain especially nowadays that we can get it from the tips of our fingers...right?
and may we get our beloved Prophet's attention in the day of judgement for practicing his teachings.

the book maybe a guidance on how to educate a child,
but i do feel like it is educating me (maybe cause am still a child...hehe) :p

just a thought i'd like to share, especially for myself and for everyone reading <3

happy blessed friday!
let's practice the sunnah of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him, his family and sohabah)
and sollu ala habibina wa sayyidina Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wasalam.

*what is good is from Allah, and what is bad is from myself...i really appreciate any corrections : )

May 31, 2013

Wonders of the 'Youth', wonder at what?

does the story of the youth of alKahfi amazes you?

how a bunch of young teens, 
with their strong faith in Allah,
escaped their tyrannical king,
with a dog, and hid in a cave,
which they fell asleep in, for a very long long time...
that when they woke up,
it was already centuries after they first found that cave.

phew~ (imagine me saying all of that in one breath)

the whole story make us wonder right?
wow! a miracle!

*'to wonder' means:
to speculate curiously or be curious about; be curious to know:to wonder what happened.

but, which part of this story should we actually wonder at?

last year, i had the privilege to discuss surah alKahfi with ustaz Mahmood (one of the things i really truly miss)

in verse 13 of surah alKahfi,
بسم الله الرحمن الرحيم

نَحنُ نَقُصُّ عَلَيكَ نَبَأَهُم بِالحَقِّ
We narrate unto you (O Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم) their story with truth:

إِنَّهُم فِتْيَةٌ ءَامَنُوا بِرَبِّهِم
Truly! They were young men who believed in their Lord (Allah),

وَزِدْنَاهُم هُدًى
and We increased them in guidance.

here, there's one point we should really be amazed at and wonder


is them being young men (فتى)
who believed in their Lord (Allah)

how boys.. barely turning into men,
could have such strong believes,
at what is right and wrong, 
and not afraid to act on it,
despite the consequences...

and they were rewarded immediately 
(and We increased them in guidance) - at the end of verse 13.


how can we be like them?
and get more guidance...

but most of us would actually wonder at...

were there 6 or actually 8 of them?
how can they sleep that long?
what happens to their nails and hair?...weren't it gonna be so long?...hehe
where exactly is that cave? the one in Syria or the one in Jordan?
which kind of dog that went with them? (i always have 'snowy', Tintin's dog in my mind)



these are valid things to wonder at...i did!

but why should we?...
Allah can do anything!
Allah actually created us and the whole entire universe!
why should we be so amazed and wonder how?

still, even if we get these answered...
how does these info benefits us?

we are easily carried away to focus on the unimportant stuffs, 
that the main point we should press on sometimes didn't even cross our mind.

so,
Let's not waste our time figuring out stuffs that doesn't give us profit
not just in the case of these Ashabul Kahfi, 
in any other stories and matters too

May Allah increase His guidance to us all : )
Happy Friday ^_^
wa sollu ala habibina wa sayyidina Muhammad صلى الله عليه وسلم
wa ala alihi wasohbihi ajma'in 

*elaborated from my notes of discussion with Ustaz Mahmood on Sept 10, 2012

May 28, 2013

*fabricoplasty* - lynne's method

so, a couple of months ago...
my brother asked me to repair his track bottoms
it was a big deal to him that i'm learning to sew...haha, honestly i have no idea how to repair this one,
but i gave it a try...

it has a tear in a place very reliable to re-tear...so i thought, i needed to reinforce this fabric and stitch them up without tension..


thus, i decided to use the principles of a 'HERNIOPLASTY',
here's a quick story of 'what is hernia' and 'how surgeons repair them'...
(for final year students, this is a very important topic to know by heart in detail!)
do watch : )
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GciYSjdLR-w

basically, 'hernioplasty' has 3 steps,

1. remove the hernia sac (we don't have anything protruding through this fabric, so i advised my brother not to overstretch his track bottom)


2. repair the defect ('the tear', so i stitched it up)


3. without tension meaning, reinforce the defect with other stuffs -a mesh in case of a hernia (thus, i stitched it on another fabric i had lying around in my room)




and Walla!, it's finished :D
'fabricoplasty, lynne's method!'
(not an A+ job, it definitely needs more research to be done on! but i combined surgery n sewing.. hehe, -stitching to be exact)

so far, my brother hasn't complained anything yet except that the white fabric is sometimes visible...hehe
i should've used a same color fabric next time.

the advice of the day, SPORT IS HEALTHY GUYS! ^_^
but boys after sports is just......huhu
am speechless!
*i'd advise anyone who wanna pick 'em up from sports (especially tennis in the afternoon) to remind them to bring extra clothes and open your windows while driving!

April 30, 2013

tailoring 101: 7 jobs we need to do to get a dress done

for a month now i've indulged myself into the mysterious realm of sewing... hee (mysteriousla for me)

there is much more to tailoring than just measuring, cutting and stitching..

for a newbie like me in tailoring, this is what i feel like while giving my best attempt to finish a dress...
*this has no scientific facts whatsoever.. thnx nabihah for the book you suggested ^_^

1. choosing a pattern > fashion designer



this feels like a 'fast-track fashion designing' course.. i had to learn what kind of fashion fits which type of body, what kind of fabric material for which kind of fashion, etc.. makes me feel a bit more self-conscious.. hehe

2. looking for a fabric > shopoholics



most girls would love this.. coz to me it definitely feels like shopping!!! *if you are not on a deadline or a rush to find one.. do find luxurious time for this so you won't regret n it's a good mental therapy too ^_^

3. getting yourself measured > tailor



the only part of sewing a dress to me that makes me feel like a tailor.. hehe, probably because.. the only image that comes to mind when i think of a tailor is a person with a measuring tape hanging down his neck like a stethoscope on a doctor's neck.

4. drawing the pattern > architect



i love drawing! my favourite part ^_^
and it makes me feel a bit like an architect.. (maybe)hehe, coz we need to draw a life-size dress, 
but the calculating process, hmm.. a bit taxing to me.. don't worry.. it's not as hard as additional maths that we studied in secondary school :D

5. cutting the fabric > a meticulous cutter



i'd say this feels like in kindergarten while cutting out the life-size drawing.. ^_^ but not while cutting my fabric, i'll be so meticulous and careful.. 

6. the sewing machine > mechanic



i feel like a mechanic with this thing.. do you know that the industrial sewing machine needs oil! and you need to use a screwdriver! to change the footer and needle.. hehe, am not so used to stuff in a toolbox. so this definitely looks like what my dad does to our walls at home ^_^

7. sewing the fabric > driver



to my utter surprise, this feels like driving! trust me! you need to have extreme control of the foot controller, too fast, your fabric may be stitched in crumbles or you won't get them in straight line.. but no worries, you can always unstitch them.. (but you can't reverse a car crash...a very safe way to know if you're ready to drive or not.. haha) just that, it'll double-triple your time to finish your dress.

fuh~~ (selalunya akan jadi sangat lapar bila dah siap - time for the tuna sandwich ^_^)
and walla! my dress is done!

sewing my own dress gave me a new perspective on 'time'
we're always told that 'time is gold' and 'time waits for no one' but in sewing.. i needed to take time, and make time.. be patient and passionate.. to get the tidiest and satisfying pretty dress.

do spend time to the ones and things you love!

*if you find yourself always complaining, try doing it yourself.. you'll find how much you appreciate things and people around you <3

maka saya undi untuk berubah! ^_^ ini kalilah!
saya sangat bersemangat untuk melaksanakan tanggungjawab buat julung kalinya!!
5 days to go.. selamat mengundi!

March 11, 2013

how i got rid of my "darkophobia"

assalamualaykum everyone...:D
sorry for being on hiatus over 7 months straight

i had my study leaves, final exams for my mbbch, post exams trip, graduation day (ALHAMDULILLAH!!! ^_^), packing, moving in to Malaysia and an official one week "off" ^_^ (hehe, that should cover 7 months)

not that am too busy to type, but......(ooopps)
now am just gonna give excuses... : (
well, plainly- i felt lazy...erk!
(dun get me wrong, journalling is still my passion, i jot my blog stuff in a diary instead, :D insyaAllah i'll update them according to date from time to time)

so, back to the 'main' topic...
what is 'darkophobia'?
"darkophobia" is a word that thoughtlessly came into my mind to describe my situation when am sitting alone for a very long period (like home alone all "day" long) in the dark (day?) n slowly bad paranoia of supernatural stuffs come creeping into my mind scaring the guts out of me from the mere sound of leaves rustling or water drips....haha

*fear of the dark is Achluophobia

this is how i managed it-
few days or or more before my final exams ended,
a friend told me that the 'supernatural' series is one of the best!


so, i tried the first episode of the first season....n it turned out......AWESOME! (hehe, my fav character is 'dean' n his fav word is 'awesome')
i was hooked up to it immediately, tho of course i waited after i finished my exams to continue them...

in the beginning, there was a lot of screaming involved n heart pounding moments (thanx ieqa miqa for screaming with me...haha) God! they were exhausting!

but towards season 6, i found myself kinda cool n not looking for any pillow or teddy to hide my eyes anymore, n of course, no scream no more! :D heee
n......i watched season 8 all by myself! home alone!!!...(in malaysia!) *proud self...haha :p

this series has built my courage!
well, that's what my dad says,
ayah added...it's a good thing that the actor is so cool and steady when facing disasters...psychologically it influence 'you' in a good way
(trying to rationalize my time wasting activity)

well, this is one of the stuffs i did since 24th jan
n today i've just finished the 16th episode of season 8..:'(
coz now i need to wait another10 days for the nex episode..

but of course, there are more pressing matters to spend my time into
n lots of duaa i still need from all of you
-that i spend my time wisely
-i get a job
-i'll be a good doctor
-consistent with my routine in cairo n be a good muslimah
-Allah's mercy n wealth onto yourself n people around you

thnx for reading...: )

January 19, 2013

wall hangers

January 19, 2013

today, a person i just knew told me a story that really triggered my inner mind (hehe.. it should if am writing it in here)

she is kak azzah.. she came to cairo this time to study arabic, and learn the Quran.. but she's only here for about a fortnight.. so she took multiple classes with a couple of ustaz and ustazah in 'markaz ihya' al-arabi' (remember? the calmest place in cairo to me after my cosy bedroom ^_^)

we were at Ya Hala in Mohandessein, and kak azzah was treating us :D
she said,

"on my first day in class.. i needed to use the toilet, as i entered the toilet n looked around, i couldn't find any place to hang or put my stuffs on!

huhu..

so you know what i did? i went out and bought those plastic wall hangers n stick them on the wall! well, am gonna spend 2 weeks in here anyway right? plus, whomever uses it, i'll get the reward! :D"



'waa kak azzah! i've never thought of that!' i spurted, amazed!

 'i've been having the same problem since the first time that 'markaz' was open (which was 2 and half years ago) and it never once crossed my mind to buy a wall hanger, instead i accommodate myself by hanging my stuffs over my shoulders for those 2 and half years!' *when am using the toilet i mean.. hee

*i am staying in markaz ihya' al-alrabi much much longer than 2 weeks in fact

her story really kicked in some sense into me n made me realize, am not that sensitive to my surroundings~ =(

but better late than never ey?

-our conversation was edited of course, 'cause i don't remember her exact words.
-written on April 10, 13

January 01, 2013

egg-cracker

January 1st, 2013

yup! i hav an exam on new year..
so yup! i stayed up on new years eve.. 
nope, not celebrating.. but memorizing...hehe
n yes! it was stressful! but, a laugh did help in the end :D

well, i am on duty to cook for yesterday and today, so as not to bother my nervous morning, i decided to cook something simple yesterday - boiled egg with sambal for breakfast...something like 'nasi lemak tak cukup bahan', but that should do right?

so, after maghrib, i put on 6 eggs on the stove to boil and went into my room and finished off revising with naimah :)
*she is my fav study buddy...helps to keep my head straight...hehe

but too straight, i was so focused that i forgot all about the eggs...untill, suddenly...in the middle of that silent night

BOOMMMMM!!!!

a firecracker-like sound came from the kitchen!
huh! my eggs!!!!! i gasped, wide-eyed

i rushed into the kitchen..
and found..
this-


it seems like i had boiled the boiling water till it dried out and exploded the eggs...

unfortunately the eggs are inedible :(
urghh, so many still to read, n i had to re-cook!

but i had a good laugh the nex morning :))
i had "egg-cracker" on new years eve! yeay!!

-the ups and downs of examination-time-zone

*what i want to achieve for this new year? in general, a better me from last year insyaAllah ^_^
-written on April 9th, 13

December 09, 2012

wriggling-garbage-worms.. a lesson

December 9, 2012

a few days back, i was washing the sink in our kitchen, i noticed the little trash can by the sink is crawled with...
worms!

yup, tiny white wriggling rice-like worms! (even writing this send goosebumps up my neck, ugh!)

hehe, no judgement please...we're in final exams time-zone!

gambar cacing yg bersih...sbb yg kotor is just too...huuu, geli!!!

so, since it's too yucky for me to touch them, i kept pouring water onto those worms to send them down the sink...*after i got rid of the thrash of course...:D

but as i watch these worms, wriggling helplessly against the water flows for their lives...it struck me! how helpless they are in my hands! i killed them all off with just a couple of shoves of water

though still, they are Allah's creatures.. living lives.. which to me, their existence seems of no importance.. as far as the amount of knowledge i have (sadly) except that these worms annoy me (flourishing up once i forgot to empty the garbage!)

so, maybe.. this is how 'we' look like to the Jews.. they kill people in Gaza mercilessly, because to them, we meant nothing.. except annoyance

- a lesson from these smelly helpless tiny wriggling worms of Allah's creation. No! they are not weak! their presence has significance!
-pondering.. 

-written on April 9th, 13

October 20, 2012

things vs hearts

October 20th, 2012

i was feeling particularly sad about something i lost a few days back...and maybe the sadness is shown pretty clear on my face...(hehe, i wouldn't be a good actress it seems)

this morning at breakfast, Ayah said to me,

"you know, miseries in this world is mostly because you can't get what you want. whether you are poor or you're rich. that thing that you can't have makes you depress

if what you want is material like money, job, clothes, house...etc, that's not a big problem! you can strive for it, work for it n find a way to achieve it...and end your misery

but if what you want is someone's heart, you cannot force it from him, because if you do...you'll feel that 'the heart' is not yours...


woops, a broken heart! haha

and a lot of people falls into depression over this, especially if you're rich...rich people can pay a lot of money just to win someone's heart...sacrifice their heritage...which they may not get

they forgot...that hearts can only be given willingly by the one you want it from, you can try to ask for it nicely...but never demand! or force it!

still, : )
don't worry, there is someone else that controls the heart...
"يا مقلّب القلوب" (Owh You who can turn hearts) and He also owns everything else... in fact, the entire universe!

so, what ever you want and you think can make you happy, ask from Him and pray for it, Allah will definitely not let you down"

hee...ayah made me smile, even without knowing what am sad about...this is why i love breakfast with my dad...

a great reminder to me that i like to share with everyone...sometimes, we forgot from whom we get everything...and sometimes we asked from the wrong person...*lagi-lagi nak pilihanraya nieh..hehe

typing with "bella's lullaby" as the background music...very authentic! ^_^
-written on April 9th, 13

September 05, 2012

in which path are we?

among the stuffs i do to take my mind off the tension of reading medical books (that never seems to finish) is meeting ustaz Mahmoud :)

ustaz mahmoud gave me a metaphor yesterday about human's incentives to reach their goal

there is this mother with 3 children around school age
randomly i name them ahmad, muhammad and mahmoud


ahmad loves to go to school...everyday he would wake up early, perform solat, breakfast and go to school without being asked by his mother

muhammad doesn't like to go to school, but as mother promised him 10 EGP everyday if he goes so he went willingly

but mahmoud on the other hand would not go to school even if mother gives him 10EGP everyday, so instead she said she'll beat him if he didn't go to school. therefore mahmoud went because he's afraid of the punishment

finally, all three of them succeed in their studies

and that is also how we all are...

we were created to worship Allah

أعوذ بالله من الشيطان الرجيم

وَ مَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالْإِنسَ إِلاَّ لِيَعْبُدُونِ
surah azZariyat: 56

thus, some of us, worship Allah, do good in our daily lives and avoid bad things because we love Allah as our God <3

some of us worship Allah because Allah promised us Jannah...and Jannah is not a small deal right?

but there are some of us who worship Allah, do good things and avoid bad ones because we are afraid of Jahannam if we don't do so...


on either path,
finally we will reach our ultimate aim that is to worship Allah
hopefully we are categorize as in one of these 3 groups of people...

and same goes to any goals we wanna achieve in our lives...
we will finally reach our aim
as long as we do not choose to be in neither of three

just a tiny thought to ponder on...
dah, lynn...g study!!
hee

August 26, 2012

مخطوط makhtoot

today Ustaz Mahmoud started our class with his journey looking for a مَخْطُوط

"ya liyana, do you know what is a 'makhtoot'?"

i shook my head

"makhtoot is a hand written book, written by ulama' from ages ago. it comes from the word 'khat'...i've been looking for this makhtoot, written in the 900 hijriah, and one page cost me LE5...and this one is of 13 pages"



wow!

"nowadays liyana, people have lost the ability to appreciate these valuable old written knowledge...let me tell you...a story...about a makhtoot in Egypt...entitled 'kitab dawud' of a hundred pieces of papers, written by a jew who was a renowned doctor at the times of Andalus...he became a muslim and wrote this makhtoot in arabic

well,
in the year around 1920, there was this British who came to Egypt, he had studied arabic very well, and he visited the 'maktabatul makhtootot' (library of old hand written books) everyday.

the 'Amin' (the person in charged of the well beings of these old valuable handwritten books a.k.a librarian) noticed that he would sit and read these handwritten books.

the Amin said...one day however, the British took out a book that was hidden among the never-read-section...a very old book, that the Amin believed to have only been read by the writer if ever. the Brittish sat reading it intensely and once he finished, he brought the book to the Amin and said:


'i'd like to have this book, i'll give you THREE Thousand dollars for it!'
'huh?...i don't know, no books should be taken out from this library' said the Amin
'hmm, how about FOUR Thousand dollars?'

now the Amin realized that this book must've been very valuable...so he said
'i cannot allow that'
'FIVE Thousands dollars?' the British kept negotiating

'ermm....well, give me one week to have this book out for you' the Amin finally took the bait

so the Amin said he paid a person to copy the 200 pages of that hand written book in one week by hand and gave the original copy to the British.

unfortunately, one sad day, the Amin's house caught fire, and the whole copy that he had of that book was burnt but only small bit of a single paper left...=(

he was very sad but he kept telling the story of a book (of which he know not of it's title) that was taken by the British until his death.

now...around two to three years ago, a Muslim student from Egypt studying in Great Britain read books in one of the libraries and found a book entitled 'kitab dawud' in English. he fortunately have heard about the existence of this book from his Muslim Scholars, but to his knowledge, the book was originally written in Arabic...not English...

and...he had heard the story of the Amin who talked about a book taken by a British...things click!

so this student went searching for the writer of the book...the writer has passed away...huu
he asked around for the writers children instead...and finally was lead to the writer's grandson who lives in his grandfather's house

'does your grandfather keep his writing materials?' the student asked
'hurm, we still keep some of his possession in the basement below, you can go look around down there, we are about to throw them all out anyway' the grandson replied

so this student went searching among the writer's possession...and walla!
he found a very old shabby hand written Arabic book entitled 'kitab dawud'...he sat there for hours reading that book...a book of medical ailments and treatment, stories of the jews and their holy book 'taurah'...


finally, he climbed up the attic and asked the grandson if he could buy that book from him
'take it, we don't want it'

and so...that precious handwritten book finally return back to Egypt =)"

"did you see liyana how people who knows the value of these knowledge 'see' this old books? the British might have made double or triple the price he paid the Amin. but how his grandson didn't even notice the fortune inside that old book that it was return for free to Egypt"

wow!

am speechless!
as usual...a story i heard in Arabic that i'd love to share with the world...i try my best to translate it from my understanding...and Ustaz Mahmoud is very patient to stop at every point i was confused and made sure as much as he can i understand every single word...

pardon me if i made any mistakes...Ustaz Mahmoud taught me to always say this:

every good and benefits comes from Allah
and any mistakes or bad words come from myself the imperfect slave =)

August 17, 2012

ramadhan day 29

we spent last night in Jami' Arrahman Arrahim ^_^

i'd like to share how wonderful it is in that huge unbelievably crowded mosque...
i prayed beside the gates of the Mosque open air...
and it was not a wonder why...


because, the Imam who led the solat was such a wonderful person
an easy going, warm, joyful and friendly...i assume so as i only hear his voice

just before we started Isya' prayer he addressed his ma'mums...

'before we start our prayers today, i'd like to tell you something,
here in this mosque...we are crowded, packed but we tolerate our fellow muslims just to pray together, we read the du'a together and 'ameen' the dua together, we cried together...but sadly, right after we exit this mosque i see some of our brothers and sister get into fights in the streets...for a simple matter...

you have just tolerated one another in this mosque, why can't we tolerate one another throughout the day?...say sorry, say thankyou...give pardons...i really hope we look into this matter dear fellow muslims. if we are here just to show off, it is better for us to pray in our houses...we don't want to ruin our prayers with 'riak' (boasting) my dear brothers and sisters...

now, i'd like to ask our brothers in the mosque to take a step forward, to give some space for your friends to enter this mosque, and for those who are outside the mosque on the streets, try your best to be behind the 'Imam' as much as you can...and squeeze in...let your fellow brothers and sister in...it's okay for us to be this crowded. zahmah fi rahmah insyaAllah (crowded in blessing insyaAllah)

pardon me as i translated his speech which i kept only in mind...i dun take notes as i wasn't prepare for such a wonderful tazkirah before isya' prayers...his words are of course much more wonderful!

being addressed like that before solat was a first time to me...
usually in other mosques, i only hear the Imam's voice saying "AllahuAkbar" and the crowded buzz around me suddenly become quiet and we are already praying...

after 4 raka'ahs of taraweeh, instead of giving a tazkirah (which i never focused in before n other mosques...mainly because it needs effort in my side to translate it, so i read the quran instead usually)

the Imam talks about the sufferings of our fellow muslims in Syria, Myanmar and Palestine...and he said there's an Islamic Relief volunteers are moving around boxes for donations...

and he said
'we are living in this very blessed and peaceful country, we eat properly, we sleep soundly, we work and earn money everyday...we do not have citizens dying from hunger at least...Egypt is blessed by Allah, we are even recorded in this holy book alQuran...since the times of nabi Yussuf alaihissalam, we become the provider for other countries in the difficult times...

(and he read surah Yussuf verse 46 - 49)

and in this blessed mosque, we are gathered among rich and wealthy people...rich and wealthy and also blessed to be here in this mosques with us...do lend some of Allah's blessings to you, so that Allah will increase it more...muslims are one, let's help our fellow muslims'

and then the Imam made an auction for most of his belongings...
he auctioned 2 of his best Tafseer and got LE10 000 each if am not mistaken, his staff, his robe, his prayer mat...someone even mentioned, why don't you auction yourself ya Imam?
'Wallahi if i am worthy to be auction for i'd give myself, but what good would i be for you?i can't cook, i do not clean houses...i just read books...hehehe'
such an easy going person...made me feel like i know him already ;)

and those thousands were given to the Islamic Relief mission

being among those rich people...it triggers me,
the best position we could be in is in the position to provide
but being given that much wealth in itself is a test..

on our way home after subuh ^_^

may Allah put us all in the best position to be his slaves...ameen
in the end, it's Allah's blessings we are looking for ^_^

August 13, 2012

ramadhan day 25: jami' bilal

this is my first time ever to meet so many...i mean 'a lot!' of "healthy" Egyptian adult and children
hehe

well, being in the hospital most of the time, i was never exposed to such crowds
but last night, i went to Jami' Bilal...about 30-45 mins drive from my place...
there were so so many people coming for taraweeh...
even the park beside the Jami' was full

my first time to be part of this huge crowd
and it gives us an extra lift of spirit to perform Ibadah
coz, the Jami' is not just full during taraweeh...
when we woke up for tahajjud, the park is still in use!
Subhanallah! Egyptians really live up the last ten days of Ramadhan... ^_^

after Tahajjud we had iftor in the park and solat subh there


i never knew that going to masjid was this much fun!...^_^


my focus is actually the beautiful crescent!if u can see it...
canteknye bulan....ad bintang2 di langit...hee :)

August 12, 2012

ramadhan day 24: let go

the moment i realized the essence of what i've gone through...
i feel blessed that Allah is always with me in this wonderful life
^_^
Alhamdulillah

hehe, the incident that happen last night wasn't that dramatic as my intro...but a 'tear-trickling-experience' for me

ieqa and i wanted to take a taxi to Jami' Rawwas again for taraweeh...
but just for taraweeh because i promised ustazah Maha i'd be there

we came down during azan for isya'
but, no worries...Jami' Rawwas starts prayer a bit late...
so we stood in front of 'Musa' trying to stop a taxi

a taxi came
'assalamualaykum, Gami' Rawwas lausamah'
'Rawwas hunak?'
'Aaa' (nodding)
'tsk' (with the index finger)

hmm...second taxi came...
another 'tsk' (with the index finger)

the third...the fourth....the fifth....

ieqa said 'maybe the traffic is bad there...guess, Jami' Ibrahim? (which can be reached on foot)

a bit dissapointed...because i've promised...but if i kept waiting for a taxi, i might miss both isya' prayers with the imam in Jami' Rawwas and Jami' Ibrahim...


resignedly...we started our steps to Jami' Ibrahim
but along the way, we still tried to stop any empty taxi

sixth...nope
seventh...'masyi!'

huh!.................i stopped in my track. stunned.
we were just about another 25 steps to Jami' Ibrahim...hee
Alhamdulillah....^_^

'see, sometimes...we just need to let go! Allah will take care of it for you...' ieqa said...

friends,
Allah never wants you to be the best
but He wants you to try your best
and He'll definitely take care of the rest

Subhanallah...:')


August 11, 2012

ramadhan day 23: i'tikaf

what does "i'tikaf" means?

it means, staying in a mosque to worship Allah
excluding all your worldly stuffs

first time i did it! :D
last night...
in Jami' Rawwas...
with panna, ieqa, adah, hana, aimi, and mufid ^_^
it was like... a 'stay-over' with friends
in a mosque
with lots of Tahajjud Prayers and Quran reading...


i was told,
anything we do in the mosque will be rewarded as good deed
this include;
sleeping, sitting, standing, rubbing your nose...whatever possible thing you do
just, remember to put your intention for i'tikaf
such an easy way to get rewards right?

was fun for a first time,
but this morn i woke up, it was zuhr already...erk!
hehe : )

تقبل الله منا ومنكم