October 20, 2012

things vs hearts

October 20th, 2012

i was feeling particularly sad about something i lost a few days back...and maybe the sadness is shown pretty clear on my face...(hehe, i wouldn't be a good actress it seems)

this morning at breakfast, Ayah said to me,

"you know, miseries in this world is mostly because you can't get what you want. whether you are poor or you're rich. that thing that you can't have makes you depress

if what you want is material like money, job, clothes, house...etc, that's not a big problem! you can strive for it, work for it n find a way to achieve it...and end your misery

but if what you want is someone's heart, you cannot force it from him, because if you do...you'll feel that 'the heart' is not yours...


woops, a broken heart! haha

and a lot of people falls into depression over this, especially if you're rich...rich people can pay a lot of money just to win someone's heart...sacrifice their heritage...which they may not get

they forgot...that hearts can only be given willingly by the one you want it from, you can try to ask for it nicely...but never demand! or force it!

still, : )
don't worry, there is someone else that controls the heart...
"يا مقلّب القلوب" (Owh You who can turn hearts) and He also owns everything else... in fact, the entire universe!

so, what ever you want and you think can make you happy, ask from Him and pray for it, Allah will definitely not let you down"

hee...ayah made me smile, even without knowing what am sad about...this is why i love breakfast with my dad...

a great reminder to me that i like to share with everyone...sometimes, we forgot from whom we get everything...and sometimes we asked from the wrong person...*lagi-lagi nak pilihanraya nieh..hehe

typing with "bella's lullaby" as the background music...very authentic! ^_^
-written on April 9th, 13